THE EROTIC REVOLUTION with Sherry Froman AKA Huggima
Sex – Tantra and Kama Sutra
Francesca Gentille
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Episode 49 - THE EROTIC REVOLUTION with Sherry Froman AKA Huggima

THE EROTIC REVOLUTION with Sherry Froman AKA Huggima, Erotic Educator, Sensual Healer, Sex Activist, member of the Tantric Circus

In this episode Sherry shares from her exploratory life in sexual ritual, erotic performance, and sacred sexuality. Learn what brings bliss and sensation into the present moment and a step by step sacred sex ritual. Discover important erogenous zones in women and in men. In simple steps learn how to reveal what you haven't said and open your lover to reveal what you need to know.

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Announcer: This program is intended for mature audiences only.

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Francesca Gentile: Welcome to Sex: Tantra, and Kama Sutra bringing you the soul of sex. With me today is Sherry Froman aka Huggi-Ma. Sherry is an erotic educator, a sex activist, an essential healer. She is also a member of the Tantric Circus and is a wonderful, vivacious, very intelligent woman with a fascinating past and, I am sure, an amazing future.

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Sherry Froman: So, between the media and between film and any type of performance that is embodying some sort of story line, you know, it's a great way to disguise any message. It's through performance art, through story telling, through costumes, whether it's about sexuality, whether it's about spirituality, anything.

People want to save their money to go be entertained, and I might also ask them to create what's called a "sacred bubble" where you say to your partner, "Nothing outside of this space can come towards us, and everything that I want to bring in is perfect" and if you like different rituals such as that. Once the man and woman have totally tapped into each other then they start sharing more deeply, the more you are going to feel things everywhere.

At first, it might seem a little strange or a little uncomfortable as men have a tendency to hold their breath when they have an orgasm. There is so much more that can be felt when we breathe and we move through things. You know, emotions can come up. All kinds of yummy sensations can be felt in all different realms of the body as you breathe and move, moving our bodies, like really getting into every experience that's physical and yummy.

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Francesca Gentile: Welcome, Sherry.

Sherry Froman: Oh, thank you so much, Francesca, for having me. It's an honor to be here.

Francesca Gentile: It's my pleasure. Sherry, one of the things that you and I wanted to talk about and I am sure we'll talk about many over the course of our time together, is this sense of a new erotic revolution, as you coined it. There was something in the 60s and 70s, but you're here on the cutting edge in San Francisco in the Tantric Circus and you are seeing something new. What is that?

Sherry Froman: Well, one thing I am definitely seeing new is how many more younger people are getting interested in conscious sexuality. You know, when I first started doing Tantra many years ago, most of the people there were in their 40s and 50s and that's great. But, then there's so many younger people that just didn't have a clue around how to bring sexuality into something that was sacred and conscious and even spiritual. And now, I am seeing so much more of that than I ever have before, and it's really wonderful.

Francesca Gentile: What do you think is causing this shift if it was the 40s and 50s and now it's being younger but it's both? Is it now shifting from 40s and 50s to 20s and 30s, or is it expanding so that there's more about multi-generational opening to sensuality and eroticism? And why do you think that's happening?

Sherry Froman: Well, I definitely think it's expanding, that's for sure. I mean, I have seen more people interested in sacred sexuality than ever before. I guess it's like anything in America. When something becomes big and enough people hear about it, then it becomes safer for them to tap into it.

Over the past 10 years or so, there's been more and more events brought into the San Francisco art scene that have combined sacred sexuality with performance, with ritual, with dance, with music. Those are things that really cater to a younger crowd. It makes it safer and more attainable for them to take a taste of it with.

Francesca Gentile: So, there's this sense of sort of art and play and ritual and fun that more younger people are drawn to it. You think of it as safer. What is sacred sexuality safe and/or what makes it safer for people?

Sherry Froman: Well, I think definitely having it one step removed from it being blatantly in your face can make it really safe.

Francesca Gentile: What does that mean?

Sherry Froman: Well, San Francisco is notoriously known for its art, for its creativity, for its passion around expressing one's desires through spoken word, through performance, through costume, through dress-up. I've seen so much more of that addressed  toward sacred sexuality than ever before.

You know, it's like when you want to get an activist message out to the kids you do a puppet show. You don't just tell them. You have to save the world by doing a, b, c, x, y, z. You do something more creatively. I've seen a lot more of that coming in with the sexual revolution here in San Francisco lately, and the Tantric Circus especially does a lot of that. We do a lot of performance, a lot of artistic expression around sacred sexuality, but in a way that feels more theatrical. It feels more like, "Wow, I want to go check this out. This is interesting".

Then, at the end people are walking away with this message around, "Wow, maybe, sexuality is something that is more easily attainable for us, and maybe, let's go check it out".

Francesca Gentile: So, it's that sense of rather than having to sign up for a really expensive workshop that might be not only about people taking their clothes off and you're taking your clothes off and  having  hands in, hands on erotic experiences and emotional experiences because Tantra is very much about heart and spirit.

What I'm hearing is that when there's a performance, a ritual performance with costume and music, that people in a sense get a message, get a possibility, a sense of, "Oh, that's what that could look like" and yet have a little bit of that space. They're not right in the middle of it having to do anything.

Sherry Froman: Yes, it's like theater and storytelling and performance has been around since the beginning of time as far as our favorite form of entertainment. Between the media, between film and any type of performance that is embodying some sort of story line. You know, it's a great way to disguise any message. It's through performance art, through storytelling, through costumes, whether it's about sexuality, whether it's about spirituality, anything. People want to save their money to go be entertained, and that's a great way to do it.

Francesca Gentile: So, if people are not in San Francisco they can always come to San Francisco. But, if they're not in San Francisco and they want to have this sense of performance, ritual, erotic revolution, what would your recommendation be to them in terms of either movies or theater or how to start their own?

Sherry Froman: Well, I'd say right now be patient. Eventually, everything gets to the rest of this country and, of course, many things start in the more media-oriented areas like San Francisco, Los Angeles, New York City. Eventually, everything kind of gets more and more mainstream and becomes more accessible to many people.

I do know many Tantra educators are traveling around the country doing their workshops, and the best thing I can say is there are films out there that talk about Tantra and sacred sexuality. I'm pretty sure that if people can't rent them in their own video Blockbuster store that they can get them online.

Francesca Gentile: Do you have any favorites?

Sherry Froman: My favorite movie was called "Bliss", and it was made in 1997. It stars Craig Sheffer, and it was taken out of the theaters very quickly because it was considered too intimate for American audiences, not too sexual too intimate. Even though they never actually say the word Tantra in the movie, the practices that the male character is given are Tantra practices. It's a very beautiful, in depth film around sexual healing, and I highly recommend that for anyone to watch, men, women. It's a beautiful, healing film around relationships and sexuality.

Francesca Gentile: That sounds fabulous. We're about to go to a break, but when we come back I want to talk more about how people can bring this sense of erotic revolution into their own life and if there is anything different that you would suggest for men and women or for people, 20s, 30s, 40s and 50s after a word and a break from our fabulous sponsors.

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Francesca Gentile: Welcome back to Sex: Tantra and Kama Sutra, bringing you the soul of sex. We're with Sherry Froman, erotic educator, member of the Tantric Circus, and we're talking about how we bring an erotic revolution to the country.

Sherry, how do you want to address steps for people? Do you want to say men or women steps? Do you want to address the 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s? How do people start to get into this? Does it matter what age or gender they are?

Sherry Froman: You know, I really don't think age has any hold to it at all. I think that people from any age range could really tap into anything like this. It's just basically creating time out in their lives to tap into their own sexuality, to their partner's sexuality and just creating a space, a sacred container where they can dive into this, that's all. It's just a matter of creating time.

Francesca Gentile: So, is time itself the sacred container or is there something else that we want when we're saying Tantra that we want to do to make this time we set aside sacred or a sacred container?

Sherry Froman: Well, there's many things that one can do once they create the time to do it. For example, like what I've said to my clients before, is pick a time, you know, once or twice a week in the evening. Put the kids to bed. Turn off the cell phones and create what's called a sacred container with you and your partner. You know, create some mood lighting in your room. Put on your favorite music. Maybe, bring in a platter of fruit, something that's really yummy to the senses.

I might also ask them to create what's called a sacred bubble where you say to your partner, "Nothing outside of this space can come towards us and everything that I want to bring in is perfect". And you do like the different rituals such as that. Once both the man and the woman have totally tapped into each other, then they start sharing more deeply.

Francesca Gentile: When you say totally tapped in, what does that mean and what supports that kind of connection that I hear when you say that?

Sherry Froman: I usually ask the man and the woman to sit facing each other, looking into each other's eyes, holding hands. They have them do first a release ceremony where they say anything that doesn't serve them in the moment, get rid of.

Francesca Gentile: What would be an example of that?

Sherry Froman: I get rid of worrying about my job. I get rid of anything before this present moment. I get rid of fear that my mother is going to call, things like that; anything that they don't want to bring in for that moment that would take away them connecting.

Then, once they feel like they've gotten rid of anything that doesn't serve them, then it's time to bring in what would serve them, such as I bring in love and connection. I bring in comfort being in this room with you. I bring in, you know, so on and so on, anything that they want to bring that makes them feel safe and connected.

Once they have that, then we start going into more deeper work of--is there anything that you would like to tell me, anything that I need to know, anything that you've never shared with me before that you feel is important? That's where it tends to get a little bit more emotional because couples could be married for many, many years, and there's some intimate things that they have never thought to share with each other. That's a really moving point in the circle. That can take a really long time though.

Francesca Gentile: Is there anything that people shouldn't share or are in the sacred container that people have set? Is there a way that whatever someone wants to share can be listened to with compassion? There's a lot of reasons people don't share. How do we support one another to share safely?

Sherry Froman: I usually recommend them to share something that isn't going to cause a lot of processing but is more like I really wanted to get this off my chest. I wanted you to hear me, and I wanted it to support this intimate encounter that we're going to have. If it is something that's really, really big, well, then that's more reason for them to do more healing work with each other.

It doesn't mean they should stop creating sacred space, but if people have been hiding something for that long and this opportunity gives them a reason to share, you know it can only create healing from that point on. I still encourage people, you know, just go for it, just really, really go for it.

Start small. Go baby steps. It can be something from, I never told you this before, but I absolutely love it when you tickle me behind my ears. I just wanted to tell you that and I felt like throughout our years of lovemaking I never got to say how much I really, really adore that one thing. So, it could be things that are more lighthearted, for example. It doesn't have to be anything super heavy.

Francesca Gentile: There's a sense that when one person is speaking the other person listens; they don't comment. And, maybe, just breathe that in and say thank you. Is there a practice for the listener?

Sherry Froman: Usually, I just say the person who decides to speak first, you know, that they get full respect around what it is they're sharing, and the person who is listening just holds space and might even respond with something like--thank you. I really honor you for sharing that with me, and then they switch.

Francesca Gentile: That sounds good. That sounds really nice. So, then the couple has released what they want to release and bring in what they want to bring in. Anything that they feel like they are ready to share that is intimate, that is a truth that is ready to be revealed and then what?

Sherry Froman: Then, I start having them go into some breathing exercises. I usually have them sit in what's called the yab yom [sp] position where the woman is sitting on top of the man, her legs wrapped around his waist, and he's holding his arms around her. And they're just breathing together, hugging and breathing, having their breath move into one unit back and forth, back and forth.

Francesca Gentile: Now, is he sitting up as well or is he lying down?

Sherry Froman: They're both sitting up. They're both sitting upright. She's sitting on his lap, on his waist, her legs wrapped around him; hugging him, he's hugging her.

Francesca Gentile: And where are his legs?

Sherry Froman: He's usually sitting kind of Indian style. If it's uncomfortable for him, he can put a pillow underneath him. You know, there's many different variations. I just encourage people to find whatever feels most comfortable for them. And if sitting like that isn't comfortable, they can lay next to each other but anything where they are breathing together. They are preferably heart to heart, face to face. You know, people can feel free to experiment. I've seen people get together in all different kinds of ways, so anything that works well for you is perfect.

Francesca Gentile: And this could work not only for long term couples, it could work for a new couple. It could be a great way to start, right?

Sherry Froman: Actually, I've done a ritual for a couple who met and fell in love and decided one week later they wanted to have their first actual lovemaking and wanted a ceremony for it. So, I led them in a ritual that was very similar to this, to initiate them into higher consciousness lovemaking. They're still together, and that was three years ago.

Francesca Gentile: Wow, that is such a great idea. It's to have someone, such as yourself, really be there for the couple to help bring them into a higher consciousness of lovemaking. Once again, that could happen at any time in a relationship, and it would always be perfect. It could be a beginning, an anniversary, whatever it was.

Sherry Froman: Yes, you could do it every year on your anniversary. You can create a honeymoon any time you want. That's the beauty of being with somebody is you can continuously keep falling in love with them if you give yourself permission to do so.

Francesca Gentile: Yeah, in the temples in India and also throughout the Middle East and Europe, they often have these priests or priestesses of love who were trained in the arts that would sit in the bed chamber and counsel and advise.

Sherry Froman: Definitely.

Francesca Gentile: I'm so glad you're bringing this back in. So, people--they're sitting across from one another, their heart open. They are breathing together. Then what happens?

Sherry Froman: Then, I might ask them to start doing very gentle touch exercises with each other. I might ask the man to look the woman in her eye, very gently stroke her hair, stroke the back of her neck and tell her that he finds really, really beautiful about her. That's usually a wonderful connection right there.

And then, I might ask the woman to do something similar, you know, something that she finds really sexy, really handsome about her male partner whether it's about their face, whether it's about their body, going from there.

And then, I might say: do either of you want to give a massage to each other? One of them might lay down, and then I start instructing them on different ways of giving erotic body works, depending on who wants to go first.

Francesca Gentile: You know, this sounds particularly tasty, what some of those strokes or what some of those places might be for the erotic body work. We'll go into that more after a break and a word from our sponsor.

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Francesca Gentile: Welcome back to Sex: Tantra and Kama Sutra bringing you the soul of sex with Sherry Froman aka Huggi-Ma, erotic educator, sexual healer. We were talking about the step-by-step evening or afternoon or morning for a couple who wants to be in the erotic revolution and explore Tantra.

We'd just gotten to erotic body work, erotic massage. Someone has laid down. What makes it a Tantra massage? What makes it this beautiful, higher conscious lovemaking? What can someone do?

Sherry Froman: Well, I kind of describe Tantra as consciously living in the bliss of each present moment, of being open to all forms of sensation. It's different from having anything localized in one area which is how a lot of people view sex, that it's just about genitalia.

No, that's not how it is at all. It's about moving that energy so that your whole body feels orgasmic, so that you're breathing into it, so that everything feels alive and invigorated and just totally on.

Francesca Gentile: How important is breathing or breathing it in, as you said?

Sherry Froman: Breathing is so important because without breath we would be dead. When it comes to sensation, the more you breathe in and exhale and keep moving that sensation all around, the more you are going to feel things everywhere.

At first, it might seem a little strange or a little uncomfortable as men tend to have a tendency to hold their breath when they have an orgasm. There is so much more that can be felt when we breathe and we move through things. You know, emotions could come up. All kinds of yummy sensations could be felt in all different realms of the body as we breathe and move, moving our bodies like really getting into every experience that's physical and yummy.

Francesca Gentile: When you say moving your body, I am imagining if someone is, let's say, the receiver is laying down and they're breathing, and their partner is touching them in various ways. Rather than just laying there not moving at all, they could wriggle. They could writhe. They could rise up to a particular touch that they're enjoying, something like that?

Sherry Froman: Definitely and letting the breaths guide them. It's not like you have to move because you are being told to move. I certainly don't mean move as in grabbing your partner while they are massaging you type of moving, but definitely moving, like giving your body permission to ride the wave of breath, ride the wave of touch. See that happens. See what happens when your partner is in tune to you by touching you, by massaging you, by loving you up.

Where does your body goes with this? And can you really stay present to your own body's pleasure? That's another aspect of Tantra is really being connected to one's self. It  isn't really so much about turn-on from the outside. It's really about being internal, being with your own self, being with your own physical being.

Francesca Gentile: That can be challenging for a lot of us who have been told don't be selfish or don't be needy, and lovemaking becomes a performance art. That's something that I'm doing to you, and this sounds very different than that.

Sherry Froman: Definitely. I've coached a lot of men and say I know you might be getting turned on by the women around you, but real Tantra is so much about yourself. It is a life practice. It's like any life practice, like yoga or like meditation or even working out in the gym. It's something that you really need to do.

An example is it's great if you can have a massage therapist come over and massage your sore, aching muscles, but for you to really get into good shape you need to develop your own practice. You need to work out every day or do whatever it is that you really enjoy doing, hiking, running, bike riding.

Same thing with lovemaking. As great as it is to get turned on by what your partner is doing, really getting turned on by yourself and what your own body is capable is one of the greatest steps in learning how to embrace Tantra.

Francesca Gentile: That sounds really revolutionary to really say: I get to enjoy my own pleasure. And yet, to do it in a way that celebrates the self rather than it's not about you, because we're not saying, "If I'm in bed with my partner then I say I'm learning Tantra so it's now going to be all about me. And therefore I am going to experience all of my pleasure." That's not what we're talking about either.

Sherry Froman: No, and a hint that I have for a lot of men is that women get really turned on seeing a man who can really enjoy his own body without him having to come out and grab onto the woman. This is true in so many realms. A man who is really in his body, who can really celebrate himself, we find it so beautiful.

Francesca Gentile: To give us a picture of that, what we're talking about is a man that can feel the breeze on his skin and find that sensual, that can smell good food and just have that sink into his body and who when he moves has given himself acceptance around his hips. A lot of men feel very wounded in our culture around their phallus, around their hips, and they end up walking in a way that is very tight and very kind of clamped down.

When a man can move his hips because he enjoys the movement of his own hips, that man is like Elvis Presley. What made Elvis so delicious for everybody? It's this sensual way that he had of moving and being in his body.

Sherry Froman: Yes, he was free in that part of his body. That was considered the sexual part of his body, Women went nuts for it. When I'm with a man and he's showing me how he really loves being touched like this and how he really loves it when I do these things to him, it's such a turn-on for me because then I get to be the giver. I get to be the nurturer. I get to be the healer. Women really like that. Women like to have the opportunity to give in that way to see our man get so turned on by what we do.

Francesca Gentile: I would have to agree. A lot of men find it difficult to just relax and surrender fully into receiving. I agree that I found that so delicious and exciting and moving and arousing when my partner trusts me enough to just relax. Like you said, he's not trying to grab my breasts or my butt or anything. He's just totally going into a state of bliss and almost like a young one, you know, breast feeding or something, just the sense of just relaxing into something with total trust. It's so erotic and deeply intimate.

Sherry Froman: It very much is. To see a man surrender to his vulnerability like that, it's so, so beautiful. I know for me I've gotten incredibly turned on watching my beloved just relax and let me "take him".

Francesca Gentile: That idea of taking someone in an erotic journey and when they surrender, it works both ways. I know for men they long to not only be taken but also to take a woman and have her surrender fully to her own erotic journey being facilitated by him.

Sherry Froman: Definitely, and that's something that I give both the man and the woman the opportunity to do when they're in that sacred space of love play. It usually starts with the massage, and I usually coach them both on the different erogenous zones throughout the body, both male and female.

Then, I coach them into the different erogenous zones on the genitalia and how to bring their partner to just the point of no return but then just hovering in that beautiful place of surrender and ecstasy. Then, from there guiding them into sacred lovemaking.

Francesca Gentile: So, that's not even sacred lovemaking. So, that's all a buildup to sacred lovemaking.

Sherry Froman: Well, it can all be called sacred lovemaking, if one wants to include it, but different kinds of touch for each person gets a chance to give and receive.

Francesca Gentile: Really taking turns. You've tantalized me now. What are those erogenous zones? Can you tell us a few of the erogenous zones on the body, male or female, or on the genitalia?

Sherry Froman: Well, let's see. With the woman definitely her scalp, the back of her neck, her breasts, her sides, her belly, the underside of her arm, her inner thigh, her butt cheeks, the bottoms of her feet, around the sides of her genitalia, right in the groin area where the pubic hair meets the inner thigh area, all around the genitalia.

I mean, women--we're like pots that like to slowly be boiled, very, very slowly. The more turn-on, the more relaxation turn-on we get beforehand, the more likely our yonies [sp] are just going to be gasping for a man to come and enter us.

Francesca Gentile: [xx] vulva?

Sherry Froman: Yes, that's a Sanskrit term for it. But, yeah, the slower, the real slow and seductive touch, you know, when we feel relaxed, when we feel safe, that's a great way to  get us dying to have the man come and take us sexually. But, with women, it's definitely about relaxation first, feeling safe first and very slowly building up towards the genitalia. How a woman is being touched as well, a slow touch but a confident touch, a nurturing touch, a gentle touch, and those slowly over time will start to build up turn-on, especially the close the man's hands go towards her genitalia.

Francesca Gentile: But tantalizing; I love that sense of building up to the genitalia over time not just going there immediately.

How about for our men? I just want to say for--one thing I will say about the ages is that as a man goes into his 30s, 40s, 50s I think he becomes an even better lover because relaxation starts to become very important for men as they mature and as they age when there are less hormones pumping through the body, what arouses the genitals for men as well, that sense of relaxation. It allows blood flow more fully.

For men, what are those erogenous zones that a woman would want to tantalize and focus on?

Sherry Froman: Well, for a man they are actually quite similar. Men love to have their butt cheeks massaged, especially right where it meets their testicles, very light fingertip touch going up and down the butt crack, up and down towards the testicles.

If a man is laying on his belly, it's so nice for a woman to take her fingertips, her finger nails and very slowly, gently brushing her hand up and down his butt crack, up and down his butt cheeks, right where the groin area is, right where his testicles are. You know, men love that. I've seen so many men just totally surrender to being touched there.

For some it can take a little getting used to, but for men who really like that, they adore being touched there, absolutely adore it.

The upper inner thighs when they are face up, also the belly, also for some the nipples, the neck. There's actually quite similar areas. It's just a matter of when, the pressure, and that's something each couple can figure out on their own because it's different for different people. All around the genitalia, there's so many ways of touching before getting there as well.

Francesca Gentile: And I love that you said that they can figure it out because it is so common to think that my next lover will have the same erogenous zones or like the same kind of pressure or touch as my last lover. We’re all so unique. There is this general area that you've given us. Thank you for this little map. I'm keeping notes. And then, there's what makes each person unique.

Sherry Froman: Yes, and another thing that I found that men really like is men love it when women use their entire bodies on them. So, it's not just using your finger tips on a man's body. It's using your breasts, using your hair, using your whole body to massage the man's body. Men love this.

Francesca Gentile: I have to tell you one of my personal little things is when a man uses his hair, when he has soft hair or slightly longer hair, and he will like stroke my entire body with his hair. Oh my God. I think it also works both ways.

Sherry Froman: Yeah, hair is definitely a wonderful fetish. In our society we tend to have more women than men with longer hair but not so much in San Francisco.

Francesca Gentile: Even short hair; I've had lovers with hair only like an inch or two long, but I call it being fuzzed when they take their head and they just rub it all over my body. It's just this amazing experience.

Sherry Froman: Sounds yummy. I definitely can see how a woman using her whole body on a man's body is something that would really turn him on.

Francesca Gentile: Oh, absolutely.

Sherry Froman: Breasts that she likes to use; men really like that contact. They like feeling the pressure of their beloved's body on top of them. For with  men, it's not just hand touch. It's the whole body.

Francesca Gentile: That sounds delicious both ways as well. We've had the sense of people taking turns, and that's so nice because when we're taking turns then one person just gets totally relaxed.

We only have a couple minutes left. Is there something you would gift us with in terms of merging? So, we've taken some turns, and now the energy, the erotic energy, the connection is building. What is a tip or two for how we move into that sense of merging?

Sherry Froman: Usually, I would ask the man if he feels ready to check in with the woman, if she feels ready for some more intimate love play. And what kind of love play would that be? Would it be intercourse? Would it be something different? But if it is intercourse, this a wonderful way to merge two energies together.

I also advise them even though all this energy has been building and building and building take it slow. You know my favorite phrase is, "Anything that is worth doing is worth doing slowly". So, upon making love to your partner continue the breathing, continue the eye contact, continue feeling like you could move that energy up, you know, so it's not localized.

You're feeling it in your heart. You're feeling it in your mind. You're feeling it all the way to the bottom of your feet. Just going slowly, connecting, seeing each other, creating that circle of love.

Francesca Gentile: That's beautiful. I want to thank you so much, Sherry, for joining with us today and giving us this really beautiful map and template step-by-step for a Tantra evening and joining the erotic revolution.

Sherry Froman: Oh, thank you so much, Francesca, for having me.

Francesca Gentile: If you want to learn more about Sherry, read her biography, see her picture, get connected to the Tantric Circus, you can do that at www.personallifemedia.com. That's www.personallifemedia.com.

Thank you so much for joining us on Sex: Tantra and Kama Sutra bringing you the full facts.

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