Episode 46: Part Two: Healing The Feminine Genitals with a Yoni/Womb Blessing with Charmaine

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In Part Two of this Two Part Series, hear Dr. Patti interview Rev. Charmaine, ordained by the New Seminary, a school of interfaith theology in New York City. She is a Reiki Master, certified hypnotherapist, trained aroma therapist, and tantric energy specialist. Learn about the yoni (or pussy, or female genital) massage that a man (or woman) can give a woman that will give her great pleasure, healing, and joy. Learn how this blessing technique shifted the way Charmaine viewed life, her body, and more. It’s easy to do, if both partners have the intention to give and receive love. Find out the intricate details of how to do it to perfection in a variety of settings, and how special an event this can be! Learn more about some of the other work Charmaine does, how she uses energy reading to work with couples, and naked erotic ecstatic gatherings!

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Dr. Patti Taylor: Welcome to part two of our interview with Charmaine on this two part show.

Charmaine: I tell people when they come to my group before you came in I was balancing my yin yang by rubbing my nipples. You rub your nipples, both of them at the same time, going inward. That balances your yin yang energy.

Pleasure will give anything that the receiver needs.

In a personal relationship I am here giving pleasure. I am here to please you.

Ramatah, that is going by the g-spot.
 
Dr. Patti Taylor: Then even the bottom too, right?

Charmaine: The bottom too. You are going to feel it. She is going to kind of rise a little and if she tries to move tell her, “No, don’t’ move just stay.”

Dr. Patti Taylor: Wow!

Charmaine: Live the vision of the erotic spirit. I read that some place and that is what I am doing living the vision of the erotic spirit through my body.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Welcome to the “Expanded Lovemaking” show. I am your host Dr. Patti Taylor of expandedlovemaking.com and I teach you how to make, give, and receive way more pleasure than you ever dreamed possible.

Today on the show we are going to learn how to heal the feminine genitals with a Yoni womb blessing. This is just one of the rituals that Charmaine leads.

I love that we have rituals in this day and age. They are such a beautiful way of bringing the sacred into our life. They show us what we can do with our beloveds in the sanctity of our private sensual chambers.

So let’s welcome our guest today Charmaine. Hi Charmaine.

Charmaine: Hi Patti. Thanks for having me again. I appreciate being here.

Dr. Patti Taylor: I love having you on Charmaine. You inspire me to know end.

Let me tell you a little bit about Reverend Charmaine. She was ordained by the New Seminary of The School of Interfaith Theology in New York City. She is a reggae master, certified hypnotherapist, trained aroma therapist, and Tontra energy specialist.
She has appeared on major media, led and co-led workshops in the tristate area since 1982, and is continually increasing her work facilitating personal empowerment through workshops and one-on-one sessions.

In this show we will find out how to perform a yuni womb blessing, also known as a genital womb blessing. Charmaine will guide us through this process and also tell us a little bit about why we might want to do it and we will talk a little bit about healing.

I think our listeners will enjoy leaning what they can do at home with their partners. Also I think a lot of people could use a lot of healing from time to time. I will put myself in that category. And maybe you are saying yes, so I think this is a good time to talk about it. So let’s get started.

Charmaine: Ok. First of all, I just wanted to say getting into honoring our womb, honoring the yuni…just the fact that someone would want to do this is just fantastic for someone to want to give someone this kind of blessing or this kind of ceremony.

I am a nudist. I am sitting here right now naked and as you were talking I was just pressing my hand on my pussy and feeling the energy of my hand going into the opening of my womb. That is just a personal relationship that I have.

My kids will yell at me, “Mom!” But they know to call before they bring company over because we have had some scenes with me doing my yuni blessing.

A woman can do this for herself but what makes it really really healing and powerful is when someone wants to give someone this kind of blessing.

Dr. Patti Taylor: I just have to say yuni is genital and I have laugh because I often do touch my own pussy when I am giving an interview just to harness that energy myself.

Charmaine: Yes. Yes. Yes. This is what I tell people when they come to my groups. I tell people before you came in I was balancing my yin yang by rubbing my nipples. You rub your nipples, both of them at the same time, going inward. That balances your yin yang energy and brings up the erotic flow. I do this a lot before my groups just to keep my own energy flowing because I am sharing this energy with people and when we do that our vibration has to stay strong enough to carry the group and this is why we do these kinds of things.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Ok. So all you women out there next time you have an important board meeting I want you to dash into the bathroom and balance your yin yang energy by… What is it? Pressing on those nipples. Is it one at a time?

Charmaine:  You actually just kind of gently stroke them, in a circular motion going inward towards your heart, at the same time. Believe me it works, it feels great, and you feel strong.

I mean, I just did it. I put the phone here and I am stroking and my heart energy lifts up. It is like it wakes up. It feels good right from my pussy all the way to my heart and that is actually balancing your yin yang.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Ok. Good! So a little secret that women can be very strong here.

Charmaine: Yes. You know when you are getting into a womb blessing a really cool way to do this is…you could do it…It is the sexiest thing to do it outside if we have a safe place on the beach or something for someone out in the open air and the moon or the sun above us is wonderful.

A lot of couples tend to do it indoors in their bedroom or creating a sacred sanctuary with candles around. I know a guy who actually really just laid a really nice mat with blanket and he put candles all around the room. He did it for his fiancé at the time. So when she came in he had this whole setup and this scene and it was just beautiful. For someone to take that kind of time already makes you feel special.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Absolutely! I am getting turned on just thinking…Wow! How would I feel if I went into my bedroom and it was all lit up like that? I would be just like coming.

Charmaine: You are already stating to get wet.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Yes. Absolutely!

Charmaine: Then what happens is the woman…Again, I want to just say that a heterosexual couple or a same sex lesbian couple can do this but one woman needs to be the receiver and the other one the giver and only in one ceremony. You don’t take turns.

Dr. Patti Taylor: You could do it on different days.

Charmaine: Different days, exactly.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Like tomorrow is my day. Tuesday is my day. Monday is my day honey.

So you lie down on your back- I have done this on my belly and on my back but the first time I experienced this was on my back.- and one partner lays their hand over the opening of your pussy. The palm of your hand is an acupressure energy center. Use the right hand. The right hand is more dominant. Energy flow out of it a lot easier. Right at the woman’s opening. She can kind of spread her legs gently. Sometimes you may find it easier to kind of raise your knees up a little. You will feel this out for your body. But the hand is placed over the opening of your pussy for like five minutes. You are just there sending energy into this wonderful womb.

You will be amazed at how the woman who is receiving just starts to kind of melt, just from that. See intention is very very important here when sending energy.

So you are placing your hand over the opening. You are just sending that warm pulsating vibration from the palm of your hand and of course it is going to feel good to touch those wet lips that are starting to get engorged. So you know that you are going to get aroused too. You can even use that energy to send more out through the palm of your hand.

Dr. Patti Taylor: I am going to ask you a question. The intension is to send healing energy or what kind of an intension would they have from the sender?

Charmaine: The intension would be for the sender to give pleasure.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Pleasure. Got it.

Charmaine: Because that pleasure will give anything that the receiver needs.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Oh that is so beautiful.

Charmaine: Ok. And that is trusting the process.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Pleasure is the most healing energy there is, right?

Charmaine: Yes.

Dr. Patti Taylor: It is not like I am going to heal the fact that your father wasn’t very nice to you or…

Charmaine: Right. Exactly!

Dr. Patti Taylor: Because now you have a negative thought in your head, right?

Charmaine: You got it. You got it. You got it.

Dr. Patti Taylor: So the giver has to get himself or herself into a really clear state of mind, right?

Charmaine: Yes.

Dr. Patti Taylor: And what might the giver do? Just kind of backtrack for one second. What might the giver do to get himself- Let’s say it is a guy just for sake of conversation now.- into a good frame of mind to be able to give that kind of pleasure. I guess by the time you set up the candles and the room you have already sort of…

Charmaine: I honor the pussy. I honor the pussy. I am giving her pleasure. I feel for her. Everything is about giving, just giver her pleasure, just touch her, just..oh the pussy is like…you can’t …What kind of words? Ice cream, the licking the sucking. I am here to give her pleasure. I am here to honor her pussy. Honor her womb.

Dr. Patti Taylor: So keep it simple and ust think about those things, right?

Charmaine: Yes.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Ok.

Charmaine: And it goes on in your mind. I personally- especially in my healing sessions- I say to myself, “I am thankful for being a loving channel. I am glad that I am a loving channel of healing energy.” Those are the things that I say of goddess when I am in session with someone. In a personal relationship I am here giving pleasure. I am here to please you.

Dr. Patti Taylor: I think it is so important. I am really really glad Charmaine that you are sharing this with us because I don’t think people realize that their thoughts transfer into the energy and through their touch right into the other person. So I think if someone thinks if they are thinking about taking out the garbage and they are touching their partner their partner is going to feel that. They may think they can get away with it but they can’t. So it is s important to be really focused

Charmaine: Right.

Dr. Patti Taylor: on those thought because your partner will feel exactly what you are thinking.

Charmaine: Exactly!

Dr. Patti Taylor: You are transparent.

Charmaine: Energy is lost that way.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Right.

Charmaine: You know you are just focusing on giving pleasure, pleasing, honoring, loving, all that good stuff. Now she is lying there and that energy is going into her pussy. It takes five minutes. She is just breathing. Then it depends on how well you know your woman’s womb, whether her vagina is naturally wet or anything like that. You can use a little big of cream or lotion or astro glide gel to kind of insert one finger.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Ok. We are going stop. We got you on the verge…Can you hold that thought for one second? We are going to take a break for one moment to support our sponsors. This is Dr. Patti Taylor and I am with Charmaine.

You can find out more about Charmaine and this process of healing the yuni at her website sensuousmystic.com.

So please stay with us.

[Break for Sponsors]

Dr. Patti Taylor: We are back and we are talking with Charmaine about healing feminine genitals with a yuni womb blessing. So Charmaine pick it up where we left off.

Charmaine: My pleasure.

So we are.. Right now as I am telling you I am inserting my middle finger into my womb.

As a woman is lying on her back you insert –middle finger, pointer finger, whichever is comfortable- as you are giving this because you want to feel kind of at ease with inserting your finger into her as well because if you are uncomfortable or stiff in your arm, she is not going to feel that comfortable in her womb. Ok. That is important to realize. You don’t just…You are not sticking but you are gliding into her pussy one finger and just kind of let her pussy absorb your penetration. Feel the wetness and as her lips are stating to engorge more you will feel almost like her walls get kind of wet and get bigger, ok?

Then you just kinf of insert that in and then you just sit there for maybe thirty seconds. You feel the wetness building then you use your finger and circle going right, you know clockwise. Just kind of let it gently move around. Kind of turn your hand left then right. Your finger can kind of feel the sides of her walls.

Dr. Patti Taylor: That feels so good. I love that. Also, how about around the top too, right?

Charmaine: Around the top. By the g-spot.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Even the bottom too, right?

Charmaine: Yes. The bottom too. And you are going to feel it. Her breathing is going to kind of rise a little. And if she tries to move tell her, “No. Don’t move just stay.” This is for you.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Wow!

Charmaine: Yeah. I am telling you.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Yeah, because women they want to…They feel they owe something. So this is not a time…right?

Charmaine: Exactly! Exactly. Lay here. Lay here.

Dr. Patti Taylor: This sounds very very gorgeous.

Charmaine: And you do let her slip it in you. If you feel that her womb is getting wetter and swelling up.  The swelling is the pleasure sensation moving through her. She is probably got this feeling now not just in her pussy but her belly and probably by her ribs now. She feels the same penetration up in her energy center as well.

Then add another finger if you can. Then do the same process around her womb with both fingers. Oh my goddess. This is one of the most powerful things you can do. By this point it is probably really rising up through her heart center.

Now this is really great. Now when you have your hand one finger or two inside it would be really cool if you could take the other hand and lie it maybe over her belly or even at her heart just to give her.. Especially if it is someone you really just started introducing this whole thing to to let her know that she is loved. The heart is connected just like there can be association by touch. Just for a moment at the belly, pelvic center, or at the heart.

Then get back to the moving of the fingers, the circular motion around the sides left and right and she is just going to keep getting wetter because what you are not allowing is she can not give back. She can only receive and breathe and just melt. The pleasure will build and move all the way up into our pleasure center and into our heart and right on through the top of our head.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Wow! Well I am getting completely hot from listening to this.

One thing that the listener might wonder, how do they know when they have reached her womb? Is there any question about that? Or is that where it stops?

Charmaine: When you enter the vagina right at the opening you want to get your finger in as far as it can go, you know, until your own hands are stopping. If you have a small womb you might feel her cervix and that is ok. You can just kind of touch there. That adds some pleasure as well but not as you are doing the whole womb, the sides in her womb, the walls. That is all the womb; the cervix, the wall

Dr. Patti Taylor: Ok. So once you are in you are in.

Charmaine: You are in but you want deep. That is why you want to try to make sure that you gently get your whole finger in then you get the second finger in. The wetter she gets the more fingers you can get in. You can get three fingers in but you take your time.

And you really want to only use your fingers and your hands. This is not about your mouth. Ok. Oral sex… This is about healing the womb. We are not really going external. We are not talking about the clit. The clit is a whole different thing which is amazing. Oral blessings are amazing. But I don’t want you to get sidetracked form the actual energy that you are giving the womb and the pleasure that it is going to receive from what you are doing.

Dr. Patti Taylor: One thing I like about this is it sounds like if you have the right intension. It sounds like if your heart is in the right place. Then maybe anyone could receive this and anyone could give this

Charmaine: Exactly!

Dr. Patti Taylor: if they really love their partner.

Charmaine: Exactly! That is really what this is all about. Loving friends can do this for each other and the bond is going to be increased. Back in the day before I actually received this kind of healing I didn’t like fingers inside of my pussy. Ok?  My  boyfriend did this for me  years ago on a beach and when he did it I was like, “What are you doing?” I introduced him to Tontra, ok? But for him it was about giving me pleasure and from that point alone he was Tantric.  He was honoring my pussy. He just inserted his finger and I did not feel uncomfortable with him doing it. But then he was like, “Don’t move. Slow. Slow. Stop.” And forty five minutes to an hour later he was one finger then two fingers and healing. I felt it in my heart. I felt…In my mind I was like, “Wow!”

Dr. Patti Taylor: And you can get four fingers in there too, right?

Charmaine: Yeah. Yeah, he did.

Dr. Patti Taylor: As much as you can get in there.

Charmaine: And for me, I was like, “Oh my goddess”. I did not even like the idea. I did not like the feeling because it was never given to me this way.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Well I think a lot has to do with the relaxation and some of it is the don’t move part. As if you can just keep relaxing into it and feeling above.

Charmaine: Yes. That is what really opened me up. The intention of him doing that, him spontaneously giving to me in that way, not expecting anything in return, it turned into something a lot more powerful than we even realized at the moment. It is a technique that I have taught so many people and couples that is just amazing. It brings tears to my eyes because the pleasure aspect is where the healing is coming from and all that other stuff doesn’t matter. It is just that pleasure is healing and powerful and it moves.

Talking to you right now- my hand…One finger and talking about it I feel it in my heart. I feel it in my throat. You can do this kind of personal healing your self. If a woman is by herself she can just sit, insert one finger in, just sit in that place and just feel her pussy ust kind of vibrating to the fact that there is a presence inside and allow that. You would be surprised at what you can do for yourself.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Wow!

Charmaine: Light a candle too.

Dr. Patti Taylor: So you can do this for yourself?

Charmaine: I would say that with that kind of exercise, inserting your finger. It is a real powerful exercise. I will shower first then after I l let that water run out. I call this a cleansing bath, a baking soda spiritual bath. You run warm water. You throw in a cup of baking soda. You lie in the water. Let this water run while you are lying in it with your legs open and flushing, moving through your pussy. I spread my legs over the side of the tub and I am doing Keogal exercises while this water is running through my pussy. Baking soda bath is a great way to cleanse your pussy to help it get into a proper ph balance.  Then I just lay there and I will rub my vagina lips and I really get into a nice healthy erotic space with my pussy. It is a great exercise for women to do in the tub.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Wow! You are a total inspiration for us all.

We are going to have to take another break here. We are talking to Charmain and this is Dr. Patti Taylor. We do want to support our sponsors. You can find out more about Charmaine at her website wwwisensousmystic.com. Please stay with us.

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Dr. Patti Taylor: We are back. I am Dr. Patti Taylor and we are talking to Charmaine about the healing of the feminine genitals with the yuni womb blessing.

We have just been talking about all the different ways that we can put attention on healing the beautiful yuni genitals for women. There are things that we can do for ourselves. There are things that our boyfriends can do for us.

What kinds of transformations have you seen in women that have done this?

Charmaine: One things that tends to happen is that women…I have noticed it more in couples. Women start crying. Couples tend to come to me because they are feeling off balance with each other sexually or they are looking for a new experience to add to their sex life.

And when I teach this particular exercise who knows what is going on between a lot of these couples but for some reason this particular exercise brings the couples back into harmony with each other and I have seen a lot of women start crying.

The man is then in a different kind of because because of the attention he has given her and that she shares herself in this way he can view her differently.

And I think this is where real honoring the pussy comes into it. We recognize how women tend to get turned off and separate themselves from partners. This particular helps transform couples into having a new relationship with the way that they relate to each other’s genitals and they are no longer taking energy from each other but they are sharing energy and blessing each other.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Wow! That is a gorgeous example. What other reasons would couples come to visit you, or people?

Charmaine: Well I actually had a couple come to me to learn the Tantric massage because they wanted to have a baby. They just didn’t seen to understand why they couldn’t get pregnant. And I tell you he always says to me within a year after having body work sessions with me they got pregnant.

Dr. Patti Taylor: That is not uncommon because I think there is a lot that has to do with the prostate and where men don’t ejaculate. So was that part of it?

Charmaine: Yes. Prostate. Pussy power. All of it and the way that they were giving to each other their goals were very different. They couldn’t have a baby. They knew something was going on and they thought maybe. They didn’t know what ritualistically would happen on the spiritual level except at sessions and that wasn’t even our goal any more.

It was about how they were sharing their energy with each other. And so during this sacred spot rub and honoring the womb and things they were able to get pregnant and keep the pregnancy.

Dr. Patti Taylor: I think sometimes you ago to someone like you- because you are psychic and you have always been psychic. At leas that is what is says on your web sit and I tend to believe people at their words.- You go to someone like you and I think you have to go with a certain amount of trust and faith that that person is going to read the situation. They are going to be a channel for what they can give you, their wisdom, their channeling and it amy not be in words. You are just going to be in from of a person and just whatever is going to come through you is going to come through you. I am guessing.

Charmaine: Yes. Yes. I tell a lot of people- even though they have specific reasons for coming to sessions- I say, “Ok. We are really not going to focus on that as being our goal. Let’s just share energy with each other.”

Dr. Patti Taylor: Exactly!

Charmaine: Then we have the process the energy takes and honor our bodies while we are doing it. We always end up manifesting what we want.

Dr. Patti Taylor: That is very good. I do something like that. I say, “Talk to me for ten minutes. Then you can talk to me for ten minutes. Then we will have our session.”

Charmaine: Right. Exactly!

Dr. Patti Taylor: I will hear enough of it in ten minutes. You will feel heard. You will feel heard. Then we will have our session. But yours is good too. But you are right because it may be about what you think it is about and it may just be about a totally other point.

Charmaine: Having a universal sprit. We are going to touch on it. It is going to be activated. But if you get to goal oriented or to side tracked by specifics you are forcing energy at that point.

Dr. Patti Taylor: And that doesn’t work.

Charmaine: No. If you are having sex and you say, “I have just got to come. I have just go to come.” “Hey, hey, hey wait a minute here.”

Dr. Patti Taylor: How do you heal that one right? That is a tough one to heal isn’t it?

Charmaine: Yeah. Can we just share some energy? Can we just share some love? I don’t want to necessarily have to have an orgasm. There are night when I don’t have any and there are times when I may have fifteen. I could tell you about that one.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Tell me about that one. Fifteen.

Charmaine: The ceremony of sex on a full moon, five hours, the room was red.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Well we are almost out of time. I want to hear about your naked workshop.

Charmaine: Oh, the erotic gatherings. Yes, energy orgasm, erotic enlightenment, sexual service ritual, erotic dancing, yuni intensive, leman intensive, we are doing our things.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Wow! Well everybody should get on your mailing list as well as mine.

Charmaine: Yes that would be wonderful.

Dr. Patti Taylor: The girl about town. The goddess priestess imptent reverend everything.

Charmaine: There you go. I tell people I am mother goddess, reverend goddess, ghetto goddess but I am always goddess.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Right. Well you really are. Well we really are just about out of time. So I would just like to know if you have one final thought that you would like to share with our listeners that might inspire them to keep with them for the rest of their day.

Charmaine: I love this one statement that I say a lot to people. Live the vision of the erotic spirit. I read that some place and it stuck with me. That is what I am doing living the vision of the erotic spirit through my body and that is a goddess blessing.

Dr. Patti Taylor: That is really beautiful and it is easy to remember too. Live the vision of erotic spirit. Even I can remember that. I have the memory of a fruit fly. Fortunately there is always more. I think I can remember that. I like that it is short.

Charmaine: Thank your body for being with you all these years. Our bodies are a holy temple. That is a very good way to associate your consciousness with your body spirit.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Yeah, I like that because a lot of people say I can’t come or I can’t feel so good. So this is really frustrating. Well that is the exact wrong path to take. You have to start at that one small drop.

Charmaine: Yes. Honor. Yes. Thank your body.

Dr. Patti Taylor: That would be the royal road to feeling so much more.

Ok. I am going to close the show out then on that incredibly beautiful thought. Thank you so much for listening.

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